I Am So Confused....

I love my husband so much but just don't feel attracted to him the way that I used to. When he touches me or tries to kiss me, I just dont want any part of it, and it drives me crazy! I can't figure out what happened, why I feel this way. I havent had a normal sex life with him in years...it was a gradual progression...from loving sex, to tolerating sex, to no sex at all. I just really want to get back to the way we used to be... I am now at the point where I constantly fantasize about other men...its so scary for me...I hate feeling this way!
spikey spikey
26-30, F
4 Responses Mar 31, 2007

You really do need to find out what happened. Either he did or didn't do something that pissed you off or you just got bored with him.

sounds familiar... let's discuss?

My wife is the same way. I don't get it either. But hearing that you do fantasize about other men is encouraging. It means that at least, you are not broken. If she would open up to me about her feelings, I would probably let her experience other men in hopes that it rekindles a lust that is long gone.

Friend me if you like. I would live to hear more about what's going on in your head. **Warning: I am an excessively horny man. I try to be polite, but sometimes my innuendos become very blatant. I will always be a gentleman unless asked to do otherwise.

hey, are you the woman inside my head? i mean i couldn't have said that any better if i tried (and it so pertains to what i am experiencing!)<br />
thanks for putting out there what i wish i could.

My message above applies to you as well. I would love to chat, and will do my best to not be a creep.