It has been a loooooong ride but I am moving on down the line. I know deep down I still care very much for my wife but I know now there is no turning back. Its now a down hill slide. I have been moving into my apartment the past two weeks, what a pain in the arse. 16 years of crap to be split up. You never know how much crap you have till you have to move it! I will be living close enough to the kids that they can ride their bikes to see me. This has made this divorce much more accetable to them. They have been helping me move and they both have been acting like interior decorators because they think that dad doesnt know how to organize an apartment. My refrigerator is off to a good start. Beer, water, ketchup and Jalepenos. LOL I guess the biggest test will start next week when I move out. This has been stretched out soo long that I am having an easier time with it now than I was a year ago. I guess the shock has worn off. Good luck to those who are in the shoes I was in. Stay strong and do what you know in your heart is right. You only get one shot at life so why not shoot for happiness?