My Husband Is Spying On Me!Just wanted to get some comments from all of you regarding this new development.
My Husband put some some type of a tracking or recording device in my vehicle.
I admit that I am guilty of looking at my H's cell phone, but that is as far as I have ever gone to snoop. And I know THAT it is wrong. I am glad that I looked at his phone tonight, because that is how I found out about his spy device in my truck. I plan on looking for the device tomorrow. It is dark out, or I would do it now.
I don't understand WHY he would do this now! We are getting divorced. I asked my attorney at the first consultation if it would make any difference if there was any infidelity in my marriage. She said, Adultery is not relevant to custody / visitation in my state. My attorney advised me to wait to "date" until the divorce is final. ( which I plan to do).
I am very upset over this! Hard to believe that 2 wks ago, he was pleading for a chance to "try & work on things". He wonders WHY
I don't want to "try" . There is no way to recover from this lack of trust! Why on earth would I want to continue in a marriage like this? I am a prisoner!
Does anyone have any experience in these matters? Any suggestions? Should I confront him with it? Leave the device alone ( provided that I locate it) & let it record me going to the gym & the grocery store? I am worried about "what"may be in my home. I can't even have a private phone conversation now. I have to assume that he will see/ hear everything.