1 Month Away From 10 Year Anniversary

Edited to change "painfull" to "painfree"... haha freudian slip???/

I'm spending it by seeing a lawyer on Wednesday...found a lawyer in my city that specializes in "mediation" etc. Want this as painfree (for me) as possible. I have very little fight left.

I want all those anniversaries BACK!!! All the anticipation leading to NOTHING.

No way in HELL am I spending another anniversary "pretending everything's ok" for everyone else only to have nothing for myself.

Back to studying...
zsuzsilowinger zsuzsilowinger 36-40, F 5 Responses Apr 21, 2012

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Anniversary Quotes:

"Let us be grateful to people who make us happy, they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom"

"A happy marriage is a long conversation that always seems too short."

"Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies."

Nah ... none of these apply to my marriage ....

Haha I was wondering where you were going with this... y'know this is me in the card aisle in recent years, going "naw, not that one... not that one... let's get a blank card!!!"

Tomorrow is my 23 year anniversary. FML

A good year to escape, I think! hint hint

Zsu, good for you for taking the next step!

AS always thanks for your support Chai

I tried to find some petty fault with your reasoning. FAILED!

Well, I didn't reallly bother much. :-)

don't stress yourself! :)

Thought about my age(56), all the anniversaries(34) that at least 1/2 were terribley painful. I am a helper, a hoper, and a veryoyal person. didn't matter. H was who he was in spite of anything I did/didn't do.

Glad, even tho it is painful, to hear your not going to invest anymore of the treasure that is you into this arrangement.

Grow, learn and redeem anything of value from all this, and move on!

Be strong, and continue to listen to your heart...findingjoyinthejourney

thank you!

my pleasure