1 Month Away From 10 Year Anniversary

Edited to change "painfull" to "painfree"... haha freudian slip???/

I'm spending it by seeing a lawyer on Wednesday...found a lawyer in my city that specializes in "mediation" etc. Want this as painfree (for me) as possible. I have very little fight left.

I want all those anniversaries BACK!!! All the anticipation leading to NOTHING.

No way in HELL am I spending another anniversary "pretending everything's ok" for everyone else only to have nothing for myself.

Back to studying...
zsuzsilowinger zsuzsilowinger
36-40, F
5 Responses Apr 21, 2012

Anniversary Quotes: <br />
"Let us be grateful to people who make us happy, they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom"<br />
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"A happy marriage is a long conversation that always seems too short."<br />
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"Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies."<br />
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Nah ... none of these apply to my marriage ....

Haha I was wondering where you were going with this... y'know this is me in the card aisle in recent years, going "naw, not that one... not that one... let's get a blank card!!!"

Tomorrow is my 23 year anniversary. FML

A good year to escape, I think! hint hint

Zsu, good for you for taking the next step!

AS always thanks for your support Chai

I tried to find some petty fault with your reasoning. FAILED!<br />
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Well, I didn't reallly bother much. :-)

don't stress yourself! :)

Thought about my age(56), all the anniversaries(34) that at least 1/2 were terribley painful. I am a helper, a hoper, and a veryoyal person. didn't matter. H was who he was in spite of anything I did/didn't do.<br />
Glad, even tho it is painful, to hear your not going to invest anymore of the treasure that is you into this arrangement.<br />
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Grow, learn and redeem anything of value from all this, and move on! <br />
Be strong, and continue to listen to your heart...findingjoyinthejourney

thank you!

my pleasure