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I Live In a Sexless Marriage

Tuesday´s Routine

By: Back2Black
Written on April 24th, 2012
Today I realized a fact in my routine daily life.
I realized that every F**** Tuesday, I am so F**** Horny. and it is funny because Tuesdays is the most busiest day of the week for me. I have lectures from morning to evening.
and every week around 13:00 o´clock i get so horny until I go home and talk to my husband on the telephone, which talking to him turns me off.
And every Tuesday, I realized damn It has been really a long time I haven´t had sex. :(

How do you shut down your sexual feelings? how do I do it? and why every Tuesday. It is really bothering me

God I wish now, in this bloody cloudy city in the north Germany, was a very sexy man, who could satisfy me in the bed.
sometimes I think it is a dream that I can again have a good sex.

By: Back2Black
Age: 26-30 , Female
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  • spawn1984
    spawn1984

    Haha this is not funny but it is. The reason why you have shut down your sex drive to your husband is because..well....he is boring in bed. Im sure you have tryed to get a little more out of him at times and he has not responded to you so much that you decided to say **** it...and thats when your sex drive fails you! I feel the same way about my relationship, but I choose to accept the " boring " sex life because i really don't have much of a choice. I have exhausted all efforts of getting that extra umph between the sheets...nothing works. I have even said look, this is how i feel. and laid it all out for her....waist of breath..so in a sence i know how you feel when it comes to your husband...but why your horny on Tuesdays..i have no clue! Blessings to you!

    Apr 24, 2012
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  • bazzar
    bazzar

    Sister "einengel" has a couple of spare blokes at the moment.



    Shoot her a pm (she's in your jurisdiction) and she might be able to hook you up.



    Tread your own path.

    Apr 24, 2012
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  • outmymind
    outmymind

    he may not know what you like or want my suggestion would be to communicate what you want and need and same for him also discuss fantasies. He may be affraid to spice things up not knowing what you like or dislike. I hear women say alot they dont like to tell their man what to do they want one to take charge and thats fine for some but some may want a hint or suggestion.

    I suggested to my wife along time ago about a fantasy night once a month where we meet at hotel and play out a fantasy of hers one night and mine the next time. After I found out that was already going on with out me it was kinda dropped. Crack a whip and explore each other . just a suggestion

    Apr 24, 2012
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    • Back2Black
      Back2Black

      yeah but we all the time talk about sex. and I am a very open person about sex. I do not feel shy or uncomfortable to talk about it. but I am so confused.

      Apr 24, 2012
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  • vuefly
    vuefly

    I can see how this could be so frustrating for you. I'm kinda in the opposite situation we love each other so much but she rarely wants to have sex with me. Every time I look at her I get horny so I had to stop looking at her cause I felt like she didn't want it. What I find out that we get horny at times when we are in stressful moments... why you think make up sex is so popular for some couples even tho they might have a love hate relationship. Its our bodies defense in keeping us happy and its a survival instant that when we are stressed out that we are sure to reproduce to make sure humanity lives on. LoL my two cents and my thoughts on what you are going through.

    Apr 24, 2012
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    • Back2Black
      Back2Black

      Thank you for understanding me. and I am sorry first for my husband and then for you that you both are in a hard situation . I do not want to be in this way but I just can not allow him any more to touch me and thinking of having a boring sex again, actually stops me of being attracted to him.

      Apr 24, 2012
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    • vuefly
      vuefly

      So he is boring in bed..... assuming that he either is to fast in bed or just has no feeling.... or maybe he doesn't know what to do...... funny thing is I ask questions to make sure my wife is pleasured BUT she hates it when I talk cause it turns her off.... so its hard. Why not spice things up a bit yourself... do some role playing or imagine him as someone else...... why do both of you have to suffer if there is true love there than both you will find away to make it fun...... you say boring.... not sure how to help since that is such a broad statement. Is he just not attractive....? Explain.... if you can...

      Apr 24, 2012
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  • GibbySan
    GibbySan

    Your prior story says you don't even want to have sex with your husband. Why are you two even still married?

    Apr 24, 2012
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    • Back2Black
      Back2Black

      Because we love each other but I am so bored with his sex. I can not convince myself to have sex with him agian. and he does not turn me on neither. when I go to him, I prefer to stay horny but do not have sex with him.on the other hand I love him so much. call me psycho or what ever. I don´t understand myself neither :(

      Apr 24, 2012
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    • vuefly
      vuefly

      seams to me there is lack of communication here. Women sure have a complex body specially when it comes down to sex. Women are pleased differently compared to men that just need to jerk off. If you two truly love each other you must find ways to make sure both you are pleasured and happy in every way possible. This is from experience and when not taken care off no matter how much love you have between each other that if the time and place is perfect.... your sexual desire will take over and look for it else where. Me and My wife are closer now cause she did cheat on me but I do not wish that feeling on any man. It still hunts me since I caught them in the action. I ignored counseling and now I think its the best thing we both ever did. Hope my insight helped and you find out what your true feels are Back2Black.. whether your afraid to leave him or that you truly care for him but have lost connection through lack of communication.

      Apr 24, 2012
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