7 Months And CountingThe last time my husband and I had sex was over 7 months ago. He says that he has some sort of jock itch or other type of infection down there that won't go away. I'm sure that's true, but I find it difficult to believe that there has not been even 1 "window of opportunity" in all this time. We don't currently have medical insurance and money is super tight, so he hasn't been to a Dr. However, he is a Veteran, and he had done no research into going to the VA clinic until I found out that he could go for free.
He said that he thought that the only clinic around was over an hour away. I did the research and guess what? There's one right here in our town. Even then, he didn't call for an appointment. When I asked him why he hadn't called, he said that he could not find his DD214 (Military Separation paperwork) so he had ordered a copy and was waiting for it. So, I called and found out that he didn't need it and set up an appointment for him.
I just don't understand. It is like he wants to have a specific medical reason not to have sex. Something that he can point to and use as an excuse so that he doesn't have to actually perform.