Time To Let It Go ?Hi
I know you've all been there as well, but I really am now at the end. It must sound like a broken record but I have the perfect life except for the intimacy and affection a relationship would normally bring. I have a lovely wife, 2 gorgeous daughters, a nice house , hoilidays, successful business, great friends, and from the outside it probably looks rosy, The fact that my wife and I have not had sex for over 9 years is a secret that no body knows. Sure we all joke about not getting any at home , but my jokes are't all that funny.
I'm now at the point where I have to push all my emotions and feelings for my wife away to remove the urge that every male must have.
I love sex, and have always enjoyed it. So have my other partners before I was married.
My wife has been diagnosed with depression and she takes an anti depressant which I have been told is a libido reducer.
We have spoken about this so many times and even though she tells me she wants to try and make things better , nothing ever happens.
I cant ever remember my wife initiating sex. I should have read this much earlier but let it slide.
I feel now that I am just in an agrement to raise our children. definately not a marriage.
I'm a young 49 , reasonably good looking (i think) certainly fit, very light drinker , non smoker, do everything with and for my kids.
Geez I sound too bloody soft dont I.
What scares me is that if I didnt have kids, I wouldnt be within a hundred miles of my wife .
I'd love some suggestions.