I Am So Lonely
I have been with my husband for 23 years and married to him for 18 years. We have two children 13 and 12. It took me 5 years and many miscarriages to finally have these two children. My husband drank heavily until he totally quit 5 years ago and I am very glad that he quit because if he didn't I was leaving him. Our sex life was ok never great but we would have sex at least once a week. Lately within the last three years our sex life is nonexistent. We probably had sex 3 or 4 times last year. This year only once so far. He has no interest at all. I don't think he's having an affair because he is always home. That's another problem we never do anything together unless the kids are with us. Dinner with the kids, he turns down invites if the kids are not invited. Friends stopped inviting us places because he always turns them down. When i talk to him about this he says he loves me but hes just tired and works 10 hours a day. I don't know what to do anymore. I am so depressed and lonely!