Written on May 5th, 2012
I feel absolutely alone. I try to have sex with my wife and she usually replies with "your not getting any". We have been married for almost 16 years. We have two children age 14 and 5. I am 36 she is 38. When we were younger it was about twice a month (not even close to what I would like) I figured it would get better. Now in the last two years we have had sex four times. And when we do it truly sucks, no foreplay, no kissing no caressing no touching and absolutely no oral sex. We are in good shape physically so no medical problems. I feel so alone and resentful towards her. She has every excuse in the world why she doesn't feel like having sex. The last time we had sex she told me we have eight minutes, turned out she only wanted four minutes of sex. I have not (trying not to be to explicit here) ********** while having sex with my wife for about two and a half years, she always says she's good and then she says were done. We have argued about this a lot and she always says if I cleaned up more I'd "get some" I do need to do more housework, but its not as if I'm leaving a landfill lying around. I try and talk to her about it but she just yells over me and then starts to cry like I am attacking her. I thought it would get better but its only gotten worse. It's affected me so much that I get mad at the tv shows or movies that always portray the man as not wanting sex. I fear we will get a divorce and that's not what I want, j just want ti have some great sex with my wife.