Sexless Marriage

I have married for 7 years,till then my husband not attracted to me.Now i have a child of 1 year.After forcing he come to me once a month or may be not.He dont give me why he doing this.Im not ugly,people tell thai im beutiful.So why he do this?
sayla26 sayla26
31-35, F
1 Response May 6, 2012

There could be any one of thousands of reasons as to "why" he doesn't want to **** you.<br />
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All of these thousands of reasons result in ONE outcome, that being that he doesn't want to **** you.<br />
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Even if you specifically knew "why" he doesn't want to **** you, it would not change the core fact that he doesn't want to **** you.<br />
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And, there is nothing much YOU can do (or not do) about it. He has made his choice about how he wants to conduct his sexual life with you. You are just collateral damage to his choice.<br />
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Your choice is whether you are going to stand it, or not. Is it a deal breaker for you, or not.<br />
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You could do worse than see a lawyer in your jurisdiction to see how a divorce would shake out for you. That would give you some handy knowledge. When (and indeed "if") you choose to use the information would be entirely down to you.<br />
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Tread your own path.