Sexless Marriage

I to am in a sexless marriage. I do not want it. We do not make love we have sex, it is so hard to explain. I do not love my husband anymore and I really think he feels the same about me. He wants sex because he said he needs the release and is getting very upset with me. I don't want him to touch me.
We have been married for 28 years. I don't remember the last time we had sex. I am sure we have not done it for the count of as many years we have been married. What I am saying is we probably have not had sex more then 28 times.
marsss marsss
2 Responses May 6, 2012

i do not know how to use this message board,

There are design inconsistencies in the web site which are frustrating especially when you want to edit any of your posts. Just keep plugging away. You will learn and people will understand in the meantime.

It ain't that hard to explain. You are in a dysfunctional marriage where sex, and lack of compatability there-in, is a symptom. Just like just about everyone else on this board (though the lament is usually about one of the spouses refusing to engage).<br />
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This starts you off equal with everyone else here, with the same awful choices ahead of you.<br />
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If you've been reading in here a bit, you'll have already seen what those choices are.<br />
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Tread your own path.

yes I see what my choices are. but I am scard

Seeing a lawyer can often alleviate a fair amount of fear and confusion.