On The Verge Of Divorcing
I hope this story doesn't bring anybody down, but unfortunately it probably will.. I am new to this post, and have no reason to hide anything about my life.. First of all, I am a 59 y.o. male trapped in a "sexless marriage" for many years. The reason for this is not easy to write about for the first time.. I'm sure all of you have experienced this at some point in the introduction.. Anyway, for the past ten years I have not had any sexual contact with my spouse despite the fact of a 33 year marriage.. The first few years everything was going great, but the spark and intensity went away..It started when I asked her to spice it up and to try different sexual positions and different ways of doing it..She didn't want any part of it and started to push me away..She would make up excuses like, "Only ****** do that" or "Take a cold shower".. I started feeling rejected especially since I was always very passionate and wanted to express my love for her with sex..Isn't this a normal feeling, or was I asking too much from her?.. The past few years have been very difficult and the thought of divorce has been flying around in my head..A woman can say no to her man at any time and expect a marriage to last.? I don't think so..