It Is Better To Have Loved And Lost...Seriously. Do you think it is better to have loved and lost then never have loved at all?
I think I am most resisting facing the truth of my marriage because then it means I've never had anything. I married my only lover. I had been propositioned plenty but waited. Then when I finally decided to jump in, well, got pregnant right away. Thought about it and did actually decide to get married without too much pressure from anyone. I was the one "in love" but now I look at all the years (25) and don't think he ever was "in love" and currently doubt he loves me at all now.
So. Would it have been better to never have married? If I admit now the whole thing was a mistake what does that say about ME? The crystal ball is out of order, I can't tell what may have happened if I had gone down a different road. I would have regretted an entire life without children, of that I am certain.
So, any who care to share, Do you regret getting married in the first place?
quieter 46-50, F 8 Responses 2 May 10, 2012