I Live In a Sexless Marriage
I would normally never post from my phone, but today is the exception. I think my marriage is going to officially end today.
We were going to meet my dad and step mom for breakfast, they were on their way out of town from traveling to see me graduate, ( a 6 hour drive). Well we were up and she was getting ready...we only had a few minutes because we got up late. So I asked her a few times if she was close to done, then said that we needed to hurry because they were waiting in us. If you have read any of my other posts you will understand that her making us late for everything has taken its toll on me, (along with lack of intimacy), so she finally said "then just leave without me." Guess what, on mother's day I ditched her. To be honest I did not realize, in my hurried and sleepy state that today was mothers day, if I had remembered that I probably would have been more patient; in the long run though, this was probably best.
So I'm trying to get her to wake up now (4pm) to be at my moms in 30 minutes...she's not really moving...I think this is going to end up in a huge fight where one of its calls a spade a spade and gets going. I wish I had spoke with a lawyer last week like I had planned, but I will do what little I can from memory as far as what some websites have suggested...I don't know how to tell her to leave...maybe I'll have to figure it out as I go. The worst part is that se has herself in the best position for staying and custody because she doesn't work during the summer and I work nights and don't really have anyway to get my son to and from school everyday and be with him at night and when he's out of school I don't have anyone to watch him.
Well, I suppose I will figure it out.
We were going to meet my dad and step mom for breakfast, they were on their way out of town from traveling to see me graduate, ( a 6 hour drive). Well we were up and she was getting ready...we only had a few minutes because we got up late. So I asked her a few times if she was close to done, then said that we needed to hurry because they were waiting in us. If you have read any of my other posts you will understand that her making us late for everything has taken its toll on me, (along with lack of intimacy), so she finally said "then just leave without me." Guess what, on mother's day I ditched her. To be honest I did not realize, in my hurried and sleepy state that today was mothers day, if I had remembered that I probably would have been more patient; in the long run though, this was probably best.
So I'm trying to get her to wake up now (4pm) to be at my moms in 30 minutes...she's not really moving...I think this is going to end up in a huge fight where one of its calls a spade a spade and gets going. I wish I had spoke with a lawyer last week like I had planned, but I will do what little I can from memory as far as what some websites have suggested...I don't know how to tell her to leave...maybe I'll have to figure it out as I go. The worst part is that se has herself in the best position for staying and custody because she doesn't work during the summer and I work nights and don't really have anyway to get my son to and from school everyday and be with him at night and when he's out of school I don't have anyone to watch him.
Well, I suppose I will figure it out.
By:
inmytime
Age:
26-30
,
Male
