I felt like I found a home when I found a group of people who were also in sexless marriages. I thought it was like a support group and I could share my stories, issues and experiences. I made the choice to stay in the marriage that I have but to find a sex partner. If I do not belong in this group because I am not seeking a divorce let me know. I certainly did not mean to intrude and I have no answers for anyone but myself, I just wanted to connect with others like me.