News Media !Guys ...God knows I do not tend to offend any culture ,country ,people ,the way they live ,....!
I don't tend to compare people , their culture ,the way they live ,because we are not in the position to compare people or blame them !
Just some facts that are kept hidden from so many people in different countries with different culture !
I just want to know how you would feel ,if you were me or somebody from my culture !
I moved out of my country when I was 35 ....I think I was mature enough to understand the differences !
At the age of 35 I had no idea that people could abuse children ! sexually I mean ! I had never heard of that !
I had never known people could have sexuall relationship with same sex ...be gay or lesbian !
I had no idea of the word " privacy " while I was never concerned about that .
why should we care about privacy ...? what happens if people know more about us ? Can it be harmful ?
I never knew a Doctor has to accept us as a patient ...I would think Doctors offices were open to every body ,all patients ...as the way it was in my country .
I did not know a woman ,as a mother ,wife , sister ,grandmother , aunt has to work till she is alive even if she has brother ,father ,nephew , husband ....becasue in my country men would all be responsible to sponsor all women in their family .
I had never heard that girls at the age of 14..13...15 ..could get pregnant and it was ok with the family to raise the baby with no father involved !
Was not it a shame ?
Kids had kids ? was it ok ?
I heard women could just break up for a while and sleep with somebody else and get pregnant and ligally it was ok ...!
I always used to think it was illegal by law and by conscience ,by heart ,by self repect ,by spirit !!!!
I did not know it was ok to call people older than us with their first name without showing any respect of calling them Mr. or Mrs .
I could not understand the meaning of " individuality " while we were either a husband or a wife ....commited in a relationship .
As far as I had seen I thought there should not have been any individuality ( some how some of us are taking advantage of that as selfishness ) when you are a human being ...
we all live together some how ....
As a colleague ...neighbor...daughter ...son...dad...mom...sister...brother ...and the closest relationshop husband and wife ...citizen
we are all connected some how !
I had never known that a marriage can be a marriage without sex ...without talk, without touch ,without any communication ....!
You explain that to 100s of million people in my country ,they look at you like you are explaining about aliens ...!
I am sure some of you just send me message say " get lost from here and go back to your country "
But as I said ...I am just mentioning the shocks I had when I moved to CA.
I expected a life with lots of talking , discussion ,love,touch x100000 ,coz I am a touchy feely ....sex...kindness...sacrifices...patience ...plans....goals....no privacy ....same closets ...just pure honesty ....!
Now see where I ended up !
It is all about Media that tells you you ar living in a hell while other people in other side of the world are living in heaven !!!!
betrayed73 36-40, F 19 Responses 0 May 22, 2012