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Life In A Sexless Marriage

Life in a Sexless Marriage:

is no different than a moth being attracted to a light.

The moth flits and flutters about the light.....and the light has no knowledge of the attraction by the is simply a light, iluminating without feeling or knowledge, of what is going on around it.
neuilly neuilly 61-65, F 6 Responses May 24, 2012

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I feel another poem coming on!

Well said Neuilly, well said.<br />
I wish I was that moth and my H was a bug zapper!

me too!!!

Illumination? Really? I look back at my marriage and the abyss stares back.

What a wonderfully expressive image! So much truth in this.

I wish you the very best. and may the winds of grace always be at your back, gently assisting you froward. <br />
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You will heal, and you will finally have the life you deserve, but, unfortunately, the exit process is sad and tormenting, but that process won't last for forever, <br />

Neuilly - that is such an accurate and kind visualization . You show no blame and no ill will towards the refuser. Someday I may be able to show such grace - in the meantime , I have concluded that my refuser's feelings do not matter to me anymore. They have no more power to influence me . With the help of the people here , I have in a few short months learned that :<br />
1. I can and will have better in my life.<br />
2. I have the ability, power and right to my own happiness. <br />
3. I will love again deeply and fully .<br />
4. My sexuality is normal, healthy and valued . <br />
Thank you my dear friend for all your support - by the end of this month - a few short days I will be moved into my own place and starting over . Everything is falling into place<br />
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thank you ago