I have been married to my husband for 23 years but in the last 5 years we have had sex only 2 or 3 times. I am only 52 he is only 58.He has high blood pressure and had struggled with ED but has been given presciptions for ED drugs. He will not take them because he says they give him a headache. I must also be far and mention that in the last 5 years due to the stress of all that has happened I have gained 50 plus pounds of weight. My husband shows no interest in sex what so ever. I am afraid if I lose weight I will not be so willing to continue being a faithful wife.