Not The Person I MarriedI am so frustrated and just need to vent. I married my husband knowing that he had back issues and would eventually need surgery and would not be able to work. I have a good job and money is not an issue, the issue is his pride. He had a successful surgery, but he has turned into the meanest person I have ever met, I took it for awhile, but 2 yrs later he is stil exploiding and playing the victim in life. He said it was because his pride was hurt and he could not contribute to paying household bills, said things would get better after he received his first disability check. After fighting 2 long years for disability he finally got his check, this has not changed him, now he is mean with his own money. I never know what I am going to come home to, we have been in separate bedrooms for the past year. He blames everything on me, yells and calls me very mean things, then the next minute he is very nice. I just can not take this emotional roller coaster. I have resorted to not talking to him thinking that he can't call names and treat me bad, that was a mistake, this infuriates him more. I have never been treated like this and am contemplating divorce at this point. I asked him to leave on a trial basis and he won't do that.
holclj 46-50, F 10 Responses 0 May 29, 2012