I Don't Live In A Sexless Marriage...I don't live in ANY marriage. My husband died fourteen years ago, at the age of thirty-nine. I was thirty-seven at that time. Now, I'm fifty-one. I haven't remarried. I've had one LTR with a guy who didn't treat me well and was really no good.
It kills me to read all of the stories from people who are ready to leave their marriages because their spouses don't want to have sex with them. It kills me because I'd love to have a marriage and all of the love and companionship that comes with it, and I wouldn't give a hoot if there was no sex involved. I had sex with my husband because it made him happy, and I wanted children, but it was never a big deal to me. If he were ONLY still alive, I wouldn't care if he had become impotent and I wouldn't care if he just stopped wanting sex, just to have him back.
I don't understand why such a big deal is made out of sex, and it hurts to see people ready to throw away what they have, what they have that I dearly want, just because they are not getting sex. I just don't get it! I don't get it! Any woman out there, if you are ready to leave your husband because he won't have sex with you, send him my way! He will receive a warm welcome and be happily accepted for what he is! Thank you.
I would like to add that I thank everyone who has expressed condolences on the loss of my husband.