No Idea How To Respond...My W wrote the following note to me this morning and I do not know how to respond to it. She makes it sound as if she is seriously attracted but there is no sex. So I would like to know how you men and women of ILIASM would respond if you received this:
"I would like to start by telling you the things I find attractive about you. They may not be mind blowing to others but they are fascinating to me. I like your skin color, I love when you are deep in thought and you don't realize anybody is looking thats when you are most innocent. Sometimes its not the things thats said, its all about the things thats done. I have to admit that I was not a real fan of the hair at first because I like you when your hair is cut and your close shaven. I like putting my hands on your face and feeling those hairs against mine. I like laying against your chest and feeling your heart beating, it makes me think that our hearts are beating together. Its little things like that that makes me feel all warm and cozy and want to be in your arms. If it leads to other pleasures Im okay with that, but I love you and want to be near you. I felt your hands on my back and neck and butt last night, that is the most comforting touch. However I know when the touches are made in frustration and not tenderness. I love you regardless but your tender touch feels so much better.
I love you and want to become closer to you. Come closer to me"
For the record, I AM frustrated because though I do all the things she mentioned, she still rejects me everytime I bring up sex. So tell me ILIASM fam. How would you all respond to this?
NMBtruth1 41-45, M 34 Responses 5 May 31, 2012