Not Sure What Is Wrong
This is my second marriage and I love my husband with all of my heart. We have been married for just over nine years and have 4 children ranging in ages from 17 to 4. (yes two of them were from my first marriage). In the beginning we had a wonderful sex life. He has always been very attentive and caring. We have been through a lot of financial difficulties in the last 5 years that would have caused most people to divorce and it only brought us closer together except in the bedroom. We do have issues with finding some time with our kids always being around, but we can always get creative about it. He just doesn't seem to be interested in sex anymore. We are lucky to have sex 1 time in 6 month time period. After reading some of the other stories on this site I realize that is still a lot to some of you, but I feel like there is something wrong with me always wanting sex and my husband not wanting me. He says he loves me, but just doesn't know what is wrong. I have gained a little weight since we got married, but not a ton. I just don't know what to do to turn things around. We are too young to start down this road.