My Sexless Marriage And My Gynecologist's RemarkI was just thinking about what my Gynecologist's said to me last year and thought that I would share it:
After having been in a sexless marriage for many years, last year, I decided that I was going to have an affair. I had known my intended for years and I truly adore him, so I mustered up enough courage to talk to my gynecologist about it.
At first my gynecologist said that she could give me something to make my desire go away. She meant to be kind because, as she explained, "it drives some people crazy" But since medication is not a substitute for a man, I explained that I was thinking of having an affair. After she warned of the risks she shrugged her shoulders and said "well, if he is not going to step up to bat......."
That's kind of it in a nutshell, isn't it?