A MemoryI remember when I still had tears over this situation.
One day when i was pregnant with our first child I was so devestated that he wouldn't even stay to cuddle with me in bed let alone have sex with me that I burst into hysterical sobbing.
He actually came back, scared, and said "stop crying you'll harm the baby".
Obediently I attempted to comply. That was that.
His attitude shifted from me to the baby early on. I know for certain my problems with my eldest stem from that time on.