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I Live In a Sexless Marriage

Holiday Cheer

By: purplerossettes
Written on July 4th, 2012
The Holidays bring to mind fireworks on the 4th of July, mistletoe hanging from the ceiling for that Christmas Eve kiss and yes, lets not forget the Easter Bunny.......But to the people who are in a sexless marriage it is the time of none at all. The frigid refuser has other more important things to do......you know what they are.............beat the rug, putter & putter always dressed up right to the neck ........with all the bedroom exit strategies................graceful little sentences: "yea, need to go watch the parade real early"- (that is the Easter exit strategy). So, my fellow- doing withouts and high and dry partners........lets unite and write a book entitled: "Three Hundred and Fifty Ways to Avoid Sex With Your Partner". Should be a best seller and we can split the proceeds and maybe even be interviewed on some late night show..........................Holiday High & Dry
By: purplerossettes
Age: 56-60
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  • bazzar
    bazzar

    "The Science of Understanding The Frigid at Heart"



    A sophisticated version of "chasing the 'why'".



    When you tire of chasing the "why" over the horizon and back, which has no pay off at all, apply that intellect and energy to the "POOOADM" Principle.

    ******* Off Out Of A Dysfunctional Marriage.



    There are good pay offs to be had out of this one.



    Tread your own path.

    Jul 4, 2012
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    • purplerossettes
      purplerossettes

      Which brings us to our second bestselling book entitiled: "Off- Out Of A Dysfunctional Marriage" "Treading Your Own Path" Thank-You........................You guys are STUPENDOUS

      Jul 4, 2012
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  • purplerossettes
    purplerossettes

    You're right all of us could come up with 1,365+ ad infinitum excuses..............suffice it to say a certain portion of the excuses has to be related to physical ailments. The Refuser has to get your sympathy. Then there are the: "All you care about is sex..............you don't care about my hemorrhoids.................This is to make you feel guilty that you even brought up the subject. All of us know all too well that the excuses are NOT funny............however it is good for us to laugh and sometimes cry together. The Refuser will then say......."thats all you're getting from me"...........and "didn't we do that last month?".....................until the Frigid Refuser (FR) finally gets the schedule he or she wants which is...........YOU GOT IT...............NO SEX @ ALL..........You just realize it takes more work to get sex out of them that building a bridge to China and you decide to just let them be. Why have to put up with type of balogna in the first place? Yes, there is complicity in not doing anything........but sex is after all between two consenting adults..........forcing yourself on someone is not a relationship............And soo, my very good friends of this support group we are all in this together............The Science of Understanding The Frigid at Heart......................................

    Jul 4, 2012
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  • Frustrated1978
    Frustrated1978

    Count me in. Though my philosophy has always been that a Refusers book of excuses is never ending and i am sure between all of us here we would of heard more than 365 Frigid Refusal excuses.



    But yep i'm up for it. I think cartoon drawings and all would be great. Between everyone here i think we would have a Best Seller.



    Stay Strong & Good Luck

    Jul 4, 2012
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  • 88ElmiraSt
    88ElmiraSt

    It would be a bestseller. Apparently there are a lot of people out there looking for any escape from the chore of sex. And judging from what I read here, they need to get a little more creative with their excuses.

    Jul 4, 2012
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    • purplerossettes
      purplerossettes

      "365 Days of Frigid Refusals" could also have some cartoon drawings you know.............exiting with a funny outfit on..........

      Jul 4, 2012
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  • purplerossettes
    purplerossettes

    Yes, very funny................."365 Days of Frigid Refusals............Bedroom Exit Strategies"

    Jul 4, 2012
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  • hylierandom
    hylierandom

    365...like a little tear-off calendar or something...

    Jul 4, 2012
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