Advice Needed DesperatelyI am new here. I came across this sight by accident when i was googling wife wont sleep with me. Anyway i have read a few stories here today but i am desperately in need of some advice.
Please bear with me in my first attempt to tell of my misery.
I work and live a comforable lifestyle. I have a nice house, cars, and children. That said i feel i am a punching bag to my wife who for what ever reason wont sleep with me. 7 months and still counting.
I work and pay all the bills and pull a hefty share of the housework as well. Meanwhile my so called wife sits at home, spends our money on herself, and refuses to be intimate with me. That said the upkeep of our house is poor considering the free time she has on her hands Our kids our of school age so she has 6 hours to herself 5 days a week. You would think some housework would be done. No she goes out most days with her friends drinking coffee, shopping, etc, than waits for me to come home to assist her with the housework.
As you could understand mentioning this problem to my friends is embarassing so it is a subject i keep to myself and just suffer in silence.
The other day i tried to tell a friend and he just said its my fault for not offering any consequences.
I just want to ask has anyone here experienced the same problem and what consequences did you offer your partner as a result of their behavour.
Please help as i need some advice on how to get some power back in the relationship cause at the moment i am a meal ticket and punching bag.