PowerTalking with a friend about family histories. At some point I say to my friend, 'I think, at some point, my Dad started witholding sex from my mom. I didn't understand some of the things my mom was saying at the time, but looking back I realize that is exactly what was going on.
"He sounds like a wise man" my friend says.
My brain explodes.
Eyebrows Z, I say "how's that?"
"Women don't like it when you withold that. It gives you great power"