Update To Advice Needed DesperatelyI would like to thank everybody that commented on my previous stories. I have soaked it all in good or bad.
Now that my wife has cooled down we have sat down and worked out our expectations from the Marriage.
I would like TO STRESS that my actions WERE NOT AS PUNISHMENT and merley a form to reclaiming myself.
I have spoken to Frustrated a number of times on private chat and he has expressed that his way of things had nothing to do with Financial Punsihment but a clear step to reclaim some self confidence, and redraw some boundaries when a relationship falls into a roomate scenario.
Lets face it who pays for their roomates expenses right?? Anyway now that things have been bought to a head we will both be attempting to salvage our marriage for all the usual reasons, kids, finances, house, and yes i do love the girl just not the way she has been treating me of late.
I hope my love is truly returned and not put on for the time being. I guess only time will tell.