How Can I Mentally Prepare For Separation?That may be a silly question to ask because I'm sure there isnt any one way.
I gave my H until November to get counseling, keep his diabetes controlled and seek real treatment for his ED. November because by then, I will have enough money saved up to get a place on my own for my son and I. Then, I can start saving up for a divorce filing with all the fixings if all 3 of those things don't improve. I'm 90% sure they(he) won't.
But for the sake of my little guy, I want to be as stable and effective as possible. So what are some things I can do to prepare us mentally? My son is 2 but will be very near 3 at that point, if that helps.