Today I Just Wanna Cry...It's been a wretched week. I've reinjured my shoulder (rotator cuff), my daughter and mom are coming from two different states tomorrow-Sunday so I've been trying to clean up the yard and house with an effed up shoulder. Last night around 11 the dogs were raising hell in the backyard. Copperhead! I killed it and discovered one of the dogs had been bit. Dealt with that emergency. If you guys recall H is a trucker and gone thru the week. So I'm talking to him this morning about ways to help keep the snakes at bay and I mention, again, that if all the piles of crap around the yard and pastures were cleaned up it would help tremendously. I wasn't hateful or snarky about it. He said "what about all the times I took the car and left you the truck". Insinuating that I'VE had plenty of opportunities to do this all on my own! We are talking about manly labor here and I'm 46 and injured! Wtf! Then when he doesn't like what I have to say about it he ends it on this note "I'm not going to argue with you about this, I love you, bye" and hangs up.....and it occurs to me....not only is he controlling the sex but he's controlling everything right down to what he deems acceptable to discuss. It's funny how you start to see your mate in a totally different light when you've come to terms that your marriage is over. My daughter is right...he's a douch.
jaimie42 46-50, F 5 Responses 0 Jul 18, 2012