The EmailSo after being fooled with duty sex, things have reverted to the way they were. Below is a copy of the email i left my wife recently.
PLEASE READ AND UNDERSTAND –
Since you won’t pick up the phone and you choose to play your usual little games of disrespecting me I am going to spell out a few realities to you that are long overdue. The real reason I took the luxuary car off you is because I am sick of your Volcanic Temper and Abusive Behaviour. Every day you are running me down or throwing some sort of insulting remark my way. Most days I just put up with it.
Your only responsibilities are to drop off the kids to school and pick them up and do some housework. For some reason you have problems getting them to school on time. When you were working and leaving home at 7am I used to get the kids ready myself and drop them off to school by 8.30am than drive to work.
From 9am – 3pm Monday - Friday you have 6 hours to yourself to do whatever you please. Hang out with your friends, go shopping, etc, I really don’t care. When I do care however is when you start bitching, and complaining about how hard your life is and giving me a hard time over responsibilities you can’t seem to time manage even though you have 6 hours to yourself 5 days a week.
I work full time and don’t get home until after 6pm. On the weekends I am with you and the kids. I don’t get any time to myself or to spend with my friends. You don’t see me complaining. Yesterday is a good example of what ****** me off. Even though you have every afternoon with the kids to sit down and do their homework for Friday’s marking you instead choose to wait until the Last Minute, Thursday Evening way after their bed time to do their homework. You then choose to ***** and give me a hard time about helping you with their homework. So even though I am tired from work I take one of our children aside and do her homework with them. This is not the only occasion. Similar scenarios have happened where you expect me to substitute tasks on your behalf when you can quite easily manage them yourself. Why is it you have all this free time on your hands but you expect me to do things you should be doing even though I work fulltime?
You really do have it easy but you can’t seem to realise that.
1. You have joint access to our money to spend however you please.
2. 95% of the time you drive the nicer of our two cars
3. You have plenty of free time on your hands when the kids are at school which you spend with your friends, shopping etc.
On the other hand you have become vain and waste money on beauty therapies, designer clothes, and sunglasses and other junk. The truth is I don’t care. I do care however when you monitor my spending, and insist on budget cuts on things I like and in most parts necessities. Despite these budget cuts you deem as necessary you want to travel to Thailand to have cosmetic work done wasting thousands of $$$$$. Like I said normally I wouldn’t care except that you insist on extreme and stupid budget cuts for the rest of us.
I am constantly and falsely accused of being up to no good. You claim I have no friends which is untrue. The reality is I cut down on spending time with them as putting up with your false accusations when I go out is just not worth it.
I know you are not going to like this but seriously it had to be said.