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I Live In A Sexless Marriage

My husband told me that he is not sexually attracted to me anymore. I don't know if it's because he found out I had sex with his cousin while he was locked up or he really don't like my weight anymore. I Just know that he is still taking care of all our bills and we manage to be nice to each other but we rarely talk to one another and we have no physical contact and I am really getting sick of it and ready to walk away.
Kirk2260 Kirk2260 51-55, F 7 Responses Jul 28, 2012

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If you cheated on him (whether he was in prison or not) especially with a family member of his i understand why he doesn't think of you sexually or find you attractive. He probably finds you repulsive to be really honest, and im sorry to say that but i was cheated on by an ex with my best friend and i found him absolutely disgustingly repulsive from the second i found out onwards. I hope he leaves asap because he was betrayed and he shouldnt be supporting the person who betrayed him. Sorry to sound harsh but you have made choices that cant be repaired. I wish you peace in your future and i hope you never have to feel the pain of being cheated on.

what do u think. cn i do smthng 4 u

Honey, you need to move on....there are a lot of other men that would love to share some physical time with you!!

You committed adultery. Ask for his forgiveness! And try to work it out with him.



The way you wrote this: "but we rarely talk to one another and we have no physical contact and I am really getting sick of it and ready to walk away", somehow seemed to me that you are not into mending things!

OK. In that case try loosing your weight. If it works then you know your extra pounds were the thing. If not go with the "asking-for-forgiveness plan

At least he says that he is not attracted to you any more. Its not confusing. It just it's what it is.

Here is the key and critical element to your story - "My husband told me that he is not sexually attracted to me anymore"



There you go, you have every fact that you need right there to make a choice about the continuation or otherwise of the marriage.



Tread your own path.

-----" I don't know if it's because he found out I had sex with his cousin while he was locked up or he really don't like my weight anymore."



Uhh, well, do the reasons really matter here?



Most likely not.



Seek legal counsel your risk of divorce is elevated. Be prepared.