These Two Articles Say It All...

Totally worth reading and complete accurate, IMO.

Why The Passive Aggressive Woman Withholds Sex

Is Your Passive Aggressive Husband Withholding Sex?

I wish I had read them 5 years ago...
nyartgal nyartgal
36-40, F
4 Responses Jul 29, 2012

If you become passive aggressive to counter your spouse's passive aggressive behavior, are you still being "passive"?

I am just so ambivalent - not about how I feel toward my husband - I know I am not the problem ( and it has taken me 20 years to realize and admit this ) - but I have two young children who don't deserve to suffer because mommy is fed up with daddy. On the one hand, I feel like I deserve to be happy and my kids would see me happy and do ok, on the other hand, I have seen how manipulative my husband is with me, what's to say he won't turn around and manipulate my kids into feeling like they need to side with him because he was wronged by me leaving? We have done counseling, I have done counseling...I could, for the sake of my kids live in the same house and be friends and wait til they are older to leave, but that would probably make him even more passive agressive toward me. I don't know what to do...their peace of mind or mine?

My husband takes no responsibility for anything. Anything.<br />
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I do think this is a major part of why my husband refused me (I no longer initiate), but not the only reason. He's a weirdo.

We are married to the same kind of man elkclan!

An interesting article regarding the denying wife. My spouse doesn't take responsibility for anything regarding our relationship. If there is any problem, it is always somehow my fault.