Article About Desire In Marriages
Lillith13 Lillith13
26-30, F
2 Responses Jul 29, 2012

The article was interesting up to the point where the author pitched his new book.

Desire problems are one thing. Celibacy is quite another.

I know what you mean... I haven't had sex since January... because of my husband. I think I have gotten used to it.. It is sad, I'm not even 30 yet.

The problem with these books is that they are written assuming both spouses want to change their intimate life. But, refusers don't want sex! They are vested in keeping the status quo. Desire differences, and the normal desire issues that arise from living life aren't the problem here. So many waste years to decades on the phony conditional promises that it will change..

It is true.. my husband does not want to change. :-(