I Am Getting ThereI just got back from another city where I am in process of purchasing a home. I feel good about the house because I can afford it with the money my mother left me as an inheritance. I have suffered terribly over her loss. I wrote on here in March when she passed. I have not had sex or a touch from the man I live with since then. He did not even attend her funeral, This is all beside the point.
The main deal is I am moving ahead. I told my husband this and as expected he called our 3 kids into the living room and told them "mom has decided to buy a house for her to sleep around in". This is nothing new and they are used to hearing this. He told them I was a **** in 2006 when I left him and had a new boyfriend. At that time, because my oldest son was in tears I ended the relationship with the other man.
I am over all of this. I have a great education. My father supports this. My kids even get it except my little guy (of course). The funny thing is he texted me and said he was going up to this same city co he could get a job and we could all live together. He can and should live there to support his children--just not in my new house!!!!! I guess I am going to have to explain this again to him.
I also find the realtor guy kinda sexy and he is single. He probably would not go for it as I guess it would seem inappropriate since he is representing me in a real estate transaction. He has asked me where my husband is in all this. I also found out that he attends the same church that I used to in that city.
Dear God, I need someone to hold me, touch me and make love to me....please make it happen.
Sad to be married wife.
HAR1978 46-50, F 5 Responses 1 Aug 1, 2012