An Iliasm Poem....................................

My marriage is sexless, this much is TRUE....

I never would have thought things could have gone so ASKEW.....

What started out passionate, warm, and for REAL....

Has turned passionless, painful and such a raw DEAL......

She is distant, detached, in-passionate , and COLD......

I deserve so much better,,,,so I have been TOLD.......

For now, I stay strong, it is the honorable thing to DO.....

I have kids to raise, and a life to see them THRU.......


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5 Responses Aug 12, 2012

I know what its like and it hurts like hell. Its sooo important to be intimate. My hubby is the same - just has no libido!

Off to the lawyers, you ought to trot<br />
To get information, to stay or to not,<br />
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Embrace some more misery, or branch out anew<br />
That is the question, now over to you.<br />
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Tread your own path.

Good luck on staying strong. Go for counselling, but if she is not willing to work with you there is little hope for the relationship. So that brings us to the kids. Only you know what's best for them, and it will come down to is it best for them to be raised in a dysfunctional marriage or not?

Your poem should read like this.<br />
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I live with a refuser that much is true. She has broken my little heart in two. I have been sexless for way too long, but she doesn't seem to give a **** right or wrong.<br />
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I wonder what am i to do. A friend suggested i should see a divorce attorney or two. To find out my rights and take it from there, than round up the bill and present it to her.<br />
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My friend insists i will be happier once its done. To leave this miserable marriage and negative hun. My kids will be fine they will thrive with my care, becuase they will have a daddy thats happy and having sex again!<br />
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Get it.<br />
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Stay Strong & Good Luck

my friend what goes around come around...soon it shall be her wanting you ..if u continue to stay with her

When have you ever seen that happen?

Untuch the day that happens pigs will fly!