First Letterokay, so I am thinking about bringing up the lack of sex and am not sure how to go about it.
you see the first 5 years of marriage we fought and had sex. we communicated thus the fighting. but my hubby views those years as being bad cuz of the arguing. and sometimes i wouldn't know that I'd pissed him off, he'd leave at like 6pm, not come home until 2am or somtimes 12 the next day.
yeah. not that I'm perfect. I have temper tantrums. the more I hold it in the worse my outburst will be. trust me better to have tiny temper tantrums that one big drama. trust me.
I am thinking of fighting it. He thinks that the less sex we have the closer we become. yeah. as platonic friends and parenting partners. but not husband and wife.
I am not sure HOW to go about it.
i am thinking of sending him an email. to get his attention. he doesn't always pay attention to my texts and if I beg for attention he'll just brush me aside. any ideas?
darktippedrose 26-30, F 12 Responses 2 Aug 15, 2012