To Stay Or Not To Stay In This MarriageMarried 35 plus years, 60 plus years old, and sex is non existant. I've had to initiate sex 99% of the time. My wife is sexually inhibitted, and other than going down on her and the missionary position, there is nothing else involved. Any suggestions to change course is met with my being a pervert.
The only reason I stay is because she would be devastated without me as her crutch. What would she do? The guilt keeps on piling up and I did have an affair once but it faded away after we moved from that place. I'm not in love with her any more, and feel more sorry than anything else.
What would you do if you were in my place. Stay or leave??