What's A Refuser?Greetings. And Salutations.
First post. I've read not 'twenty random stories' but the last twenty pages of stories. Interesting, sad, insightful, informative. At first I was so empathetic and saddened I had to quit reading. Then I saw a pattern. Then I recognized the insights. The stories and comments have helped bring much to clarity, thank you all for that.
My tale of woe is similar to the rest and I don't feel like 'spilling it' right now. Maybe another time -- it's dissimilar enough to maybe help a person or two.
Just to kick the can, to get the ball rolling, I have a question to pose. Suppose a spouse, given the choice between sex or the door, chooses sex. But the sex is 'duty sex', devoid of intimacy or passion. Would you still categorize this person as a 'refuser'?