My wife and I have been married 25 years, and the last 3 years there has been no sex, which drives me crazy! She will not allow touching, or any intimacy, she says the menopause has made her asexual, no desire. I have asked if she would give me a blow but apparently her mouth doesnt work any more either. She just pushes me away. She still expects me to do my share of the housework, and work full-time, and pay for the mortgage etc etc. But no sex. And she expects me to remain faithful. If anyone can give me any tips?