"Be Discreet."If your husband (wife) told you to, "get a boy(girl) friend but be discreet and don't fall in love" as one of his defenses - would you?
Also, what does this say (what do you think?) to the members of the group about his/her mindset?
AND what does it take to compartmentalize each side?
Do any of you have arrangements like this?
Do they work?
Or is it just a compact with the devil?
I'm a firm believer that kids are lightning rods for this kind of behavior.
We have a 4 yr old granddaughter in the house.
Any experiences with that?