Ooh! That's gonna hurt like a *****; it's THE most painful body piercing you can have, bar none. Mind you, it IS only about 2, 3 or maybe even 4 seconds of pain per ***. It's not just the pain but the weird sensation of something quite solid being pushed through quite dense tissue, over quite a distance.
And it can take an awful, awful long time to heal fully and infection is problematic although not usually serious. It can sometimes take a year or more for them to heal, so I'm suggesting that you probably won't be playing with them any time soon. Do you suppose that she realises that?
Women supposedly find it more of turn-on than men do, but then I can't vouch for that. I'm a bit surprised she's prepared to go through it, or am I?
I'm 29 and I've been in a sexless marriage for about two years. I love my wife and I will not leave her. We have fun, we just don't have sex. I have no one to talk to and I'm feeling really lonely. Is anyone interested in chatting?