I Live In a Sexless Marriage

2 Nights Without Children

By: Neerod65

Written on September 2nd, 2012

2nd night without children... nothing.. he is watching NASCAR and me playing computer games. it is crazy.
I tried to initiate over a year ago and got tired of rejection. I am getting used to NO SEX.
very sad. very. never thought it would be like this.

By: Neerod65

Age: 46-50 , Female

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19 responses

LostOrStuck

I know I ask myself, How did we get to this place? Sorry to hear your story.

Sep 3, 2012
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bbwbellylover

open marriage? find a boy toy? just a few ideas.

Sep 3, 2012
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jbear1112

Wow smh.

Sep 3, 2012
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newdjgl9

I thought he was looking at nasca. The swinger. Lifestyle. You know. Maybe ne was giving

You a clue I geuss. He is just a goof try blowing. Him...he is watching cars make left g

turns and you take himim your mouth hell it might give him a.clue...

Sep 3, 2012
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- Fool4Waiting
  Where do these cretins come from?
  
  Sep 3, 2012
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- 88ElmiraSt
  He would say, "Not now, Harvick just pitted."
  
  Sep 3, 2012
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- newdjgl9
  Cretins come from Crete
  .....could he be gay? Give him a hand..job walk intopless nipples blazing kiss him hard crab his Johnson somtin wrong with that. Boy
  
  Sep 3, 2012
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Fool4Waiting

I've been thinking about how this behavior impacts children. I probably grew up in a sexless marriage (after 5 kids were born) and look at me today - in one. I have a question for the group - did you see much/any affection between your parents growing up?

Sep 3, 2012
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- 88ElmiraSt
  Never. I think my dad might be Asperger's or what they used to call Asperger's. He is extremely uncomfortable with any physical or emotional closeness. Can't tolerate noise either, and is pretty clueless about emotional cues. My mom acts like nothing bothers her, but I sadly fear she has led a life of quiet despair.
  
  Sep 3, 2012
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- 1LongingRose
  I saw some affection, but most of the time I could sense that my mom was emotionally neglected a lot of the time. There were several times during my childhood when my mom threatened to divorce my dad, and a few years ago I had to talk her out of leaving him. So, all in all I've never witnessed a truly happy healthy marriage.
  
  Sep 5, 2012
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mrnature

it never feels right, knowing how much you are missing~

Sep 3, 2012
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brem700

I have yet to get used to it. In fact, the longer the more pissed off I am getting about it.

Sep 3, 2012
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1LongingRose

I understand completely, I've had the same experience before and it's depressing I know. It's messed up when they say that they can't because the kids are home, but when you have an empty nest and the 'excuse' is removed and still there's nothing... not fair, not cool, not okay at all.

Sep 3, 2012
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Fool4Waiting

"never thought it would be like this." Funny - I told my husband the same thing last week. I guess it's the things we don't think about that bite us in the ***.

Sep 3, 2012
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Gazell

blah...how long have you been doing this? it can go a long time....i never got used to it.

Sep 3, 2012
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88ElmiraSt

This is a boring race too.

Sep 2, 2012
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lonlywife

I don't think you ever get used to not having sex. Let me know if you do.

Sep 2, 2012
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genguy

Perhaps you could play "NASTY CAR" and ask him to look under the "HOOD"!! Use a finger as a DIPSTICK...or something ELSE as one!! Sounds like a routine that you are NO stranger to... You have written your story...Now what are YOU going to do???

Sep 2, 2012
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- newdjgl9
  Sit on his face...or order a pizza and give the guy a big tip.._
  
  Sep 3, 2012
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