How I Overcame The Sexless MarriageGuys, I would like to share my experience with you. I am a 32 year old female and when I was newly married I had a huge sex drive but my husband wasn't really into it (as in every day or every 2 days or even once a week). This caused so much unhappiness in my life and I used to question myself and argue with him constantly. Trust me..it was so bad that I even resorted to suicide. I hated him for this.
Since having a baby this year, I have lost my libido and we have not had sex for over a year..but I am so happy living like this for the rest of my life. Now he is very frustrated although I must say is handling it better than how I did!
I feel like God has answered my prayers..how I used to wish that I lose my libido so I wouldnt feel so angry! I now keep myself busy with working full-time and looking after the baby in the evenings. I wouldnt say I have the best marriage as he does as he wants and goes to the pub 3-4 times a week. But I have faith in God and I keep myself so busy with work and home that I dont have the energy to argue or even the time to conspire or think.
I would only ever leave this marriage if he would beat me or have an affair which to be fair he isnt.
So to all of you, have faith in God as good things happen to good people, keep busy and work hard...xxxx
bluepearl01 31-35 26 Responses 2 Sep 4, 2012