I've Been In Sexless Relationships

i had relationships with men who do nothing but cheat and deprive me of sex. i dont get it im pretty thick sexy and im good in bed down for whatever. i can cook, keep a clean house, cant stand to be with out a job. yet these aholes still cheat and use the dumbest excuses when they get caught. ''im not used to being with a good woman like you'', ''im sorry she didnt mean anything it was a mistake'', ''sorry i got her pregnant'', ''i been hurt before by other woman im not used to being with a good woman wish i woulda met you earlier'' what the hell man. all i ask for is 2-4 times a week is that to much to ask?
leonidas81 leonidas81
31-35, F
6 Responses Sep 4, 2012

they start off being nice and good respectful hard working than after the get comfy there true colors come out. i dont tolerate cheating i leave them as soon as i find out. its only one strike with me.

Your man picker is broken. See a good psychologist and they can help you figure out why you gravitate to the type of person you do.

You're a good woman. I'll give you my number in private message...

maybe you need to look down in Africa for real committed relationships.its stronger

The answer is probably twofold.<br />
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One part would be the qualities of these various dudes.<br />
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The other part would be what attracts you to them in the first place.<br />
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Not a lot you can do about the quality of another person. They are what they are.<br />
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You can however do quite a lot about defining your own boundaries.<br />
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Tread your own path.

Amen. Why do our partners have too many issues. I hope you find a better partner.