Stuck

I recently divorced and met whom I thought was the man of my dreams perfect in every way possible! When we first started dating we would make love 2 or 3 times a week I now live with him he Is a diabetic and has high blood pressure so takes meds for those problems and I understand taking certain meds will make it hard to perform in bed. I have talked to him about this problem ( I miss him)
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3 Responses Sep 9, 2012

Sad...I think this would be my biggest fear.Ending my marriage and then into a relationship where I see the red flags.I am sorry it happened to you and I know this would sound selfish or insensitive,but I will never allow myself to be in this situation again..I could not take it.

If he will not manage his own health, then he is in dereliction of duty to himself, and, by default, any relationship he might be in.<br />
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That automatically puts any relationship he is in, into dysfunctional status, and requires the parties to renegotiate - or decide whether to continue in - said relationship.<br />
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It would appear you are faced with a choice. One you would prefer not to have to make.<br />
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You continue in the relationship as it is, or you don't continue with it at all.<br />
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Tread your own path.

Can you clarify ?<br />
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One way this reads like you live with him, another way it reads you don't.<br />
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One way it reads like you are aware that meds could be a problem in the future but aren't presently, another way it reads like the meds are a problem now.<br />
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Tread your own path.

Sorry bazzar yes I do live with him he is on a lot of meds that make it difficult for him to preform in the bed he's trying to lower his docents of meds he's taking in hopes that this helps I guess I just miss him I also talked to him pleasing me going down on me ect but he won't hurt and lonely help any advice