The Nerve!!!'

So last night I'm on the Internet and he tries to sneak up to see what I'm doing!!! Then the phrase" your up to something". It took everything in me not to shout in his face. I'm not the one looking at disgusting **** or checking out dating sites. One month and then I confront him. I hope I don't lose it before then.
baabes72 baabes72
41-45, F
6 Responses Sep 11, 2012

I am curious about why any 'confrontation' is necessary in a months time about this.<br />
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You know that he is intimacy averse to you, which makes a compelling case to dump him all by itself. <br />
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In your case you even seem to know the "why" to some degree, but that knowledge has not, does not, and will not make him any less intimacy averse to you, today, tomorrow, or in a months time or a years time.<br />
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Why not just do what you are going to do ? You've got the trigger, you've got the legal advice, you've got the exit plan.<br />
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What possible value is there in having a confrontation ??<br />
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Tread your own path.

yea like that moive...> I KNOW WHAT YOU DID LAST SUMMER

I have noticed you have spoken to a lawyer and you are informed of your rights. The decision is soley in your hands to make.<br />
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Have you had enough of this tool or are you going to keep going a bit longer? Reading your story i sense you aren't at your breaking point. <br />
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If you were you would have confronted him with the evidence straight away. Perhaps it is a bit convenient for you that you have guests arriving. Helps postpone a difficult decision.<br />
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It might postpone it for now but eventually you have a choice to make. All choices available here suck but nobody gets a pass on choice.<br />
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Stay Strong & Good Luck

Your #1 plan should be divorce TODAY. <br />
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Stop settling for Plan B or C or D or whatever.

Gibbysan I have been thinking a great deal about that. First I printed up the proof so he can't deny it. As for what I'm going to do??? Still not sure. My friend and I were talking about this and she brought the point across to me that I didn't even think about. She asked me " if something has happened am I prepared to hear the truth and am I willing to do something about?". She said sometimes it's better to not know.....well I have a month to really try and clear my head and figure this thing out.....I just wish I didn't love him so much.