Friday Night DrinksTonight after work I went out for a drink with a co-worker. A friend of hers joined us, they are both about the age of my daughter. While we were enjoying adult beverages and girl talk, the friend mentioned the fact that her boyfriend wasn't interested in having sex with her. She said - "I walk around naked - nothing. I don't want to go to the damn Field Museum, let's just do it!" This was a beautiful, sexy young woman - I was stunned. What kind of an idiot wouldn't want sex with her? Hell, I would have sex with her and I don't even swing that direction.
My immediate response to her was "Run the fvck away, as fast as you can. Some people love sex, and some people can take it or leave it. The two should never be in a couple together. This will never get better - it will only get worse." God, I hope she gives that some thought! Thanks to all the wise EP members who have taught me all I know on the subject. Maybe it will save her a few years and her self confidence.
From despair.com - "Mistakes: it could be that the purpose of your life is to serve as a warning to others".