Has My Husband Turned Into My Room Mate?
I'm 14 years into my marriage and the last 6 have been basically sexless. We still have a great relationship, we love each other and have what would be classed as a perfect marriage....except for the last 6 years our sex life has dwindled to nothing...not for my lack of wanting it.
I've tried everything, doing nothing..looking good, being dominant or the submisve, talking about it and not talking about it...dressing and acting sexy..... unfortunately I've got no where. My self esteem is being brought to an all time low...I've begun to think it doesn't matter what I look like, act like...not if I am myself or try to act like someone else.
I'll admit I even have had a couple of one night stands just to be able to feel that I'm desired....but thats not what I want..I want my husband....he just doesn't want me in a sexual way.
So now I need suggestions...what to do?..