A Little ProgressI have a bit of an update. My H has informed me that he closed on the house that he was in contract to purchase. The closing was a week ago. I saw moving trucks there today, so I would've figured it out. I don't know why the closing was a secret.
The house is one block away. So he will still be able to monitor me. ( aka: spy) Originally, I was very upset about the close proximity to me. I am still unhappy about it. But, I have come to the conclusion that HIS decision to live so close to me, will be hardest on HIM. Since he is nearby, he may see my " friend" visiting me when he has the kids. I plan on "living" my life during my child free time. I may stay out at night & have the occasional overnight guest. ( all done while the children are away). I will miss my kids, but I have a great distraction to keep me busy. Unfortunately, I don't think my H will be happy when he finds out about my " friend". ( I am not going to flaunt it, but he may see him) And it's his own fault if he does! He shouldn't have moved so close by.
Of course, he hasn't mentioned " WHEN" he will be moving! I am hoping that it is soon. I know he will stall for as long as he can. I am sure he will need to paint, get furniture, & any other excuse he can come up with.
Today I ordered a new bedding set, in the hopes that I will be sleeping in a bed again soon. I would like to get a new bed, but I'm not sure what my financial situation will be, so new sheets & blankets will have to do. After all, the bed is still a " virgin" !! Lol
ANewLife4Me 46-50, F 1 Response 0 Oct 18, 2012